Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Learn

One of the most life changing pieces of advice I’ve ever been given is “life is like a heartbeat, it goes up and down”. Basically sometimes you win everything is on the up and then sometimes you lose or as I prefer to say you sometimes learn through the downs; everything in life can be taken as a lesson. Reflection is important for successfully learning the lesson and things might not make sense till years later after experiencing other things, not necessarily all losses…it’s a madness how life works. My advice is to ride the wave of life, do what you can each day and try not to let the setbacks destroy you, aim to become resilient by learning from the experiences you’re having/had. Remember not all losses are a bad thing sometimes it’s the universe having other plans for you or protection. 

I also believe in karma which could be an explanation to why we win and lose. That’s only partially responsible though, we all have lessons to learn no matter how good of a person you try be so don’t always take it as a personal attack for something you’ve done - it would be naive to think you have no lessons to learn. 

Losses are only losses if you don’t learn from them, changing the way you think is life changing. 

Till next time, 

Stevie x